By Beth Stitely | Posted: Sunday November 15, 2015
It’s encouraging to see those who are facing the holiday with uplifted spirits and a renewed sense of hope.
Jasmine is the mother of four girls who is acutely aware of what it means to be a Mum and to care for a family. She and her husband are eager to see that their family is well taken care of, so when they noticed their daughter was behaving differently, they became concerned. “I knew my daughter was different but everyone kept reassuring me that everything was OK.” It wasn't until her daughter started school that the teacher suggested she may need some extra help.
Eventually Jasmine ended up in the hands of Anglican Family Care’s social worker Jackie. “Jackie was great,” Jasmine says “After every meeting I would feel better. She would help me get back to a place where I could deal with everything going on. She helped me to feel capable and empowered.”
Jasmine spent about six months with Anglican Family Care. In that time she specifically worked with the Strengthening Families Programme. “I loved this programme! It was fantastic. Even though the meetings are all finished, the structures are still in place and I find that very helpful, even today.”
The Strengthening Families Programme helped Jasmine to effectively coordinate care for her daughter. “Before this programme I was meeting with someone every day and it was getting quite difficult and stressful. When Jackie first suggested I try it, I was skeptical. But after giving it a go it really made my life easier.” The Strengthening Families Programme brought together all those involved with the care and diagnosis of Jasmine’s daughter. With coordinated meetings, communication significantly improved. Jasmine felt her voice was being heard and everyone's time was being used efficiently.
During these and other difficult times Jasmine also relies on her faith. She trusts that God will bring the help she needs at just the right moment. “When I was referred to Anglican Family Care it was reassuring to me. With my faith I know that Jesus is there and part of my day-to-day life, a constant companion, so having Anglican Family Care was a nice wee add-on.”
With the holidays fast approaching, Jasmine is anticipating a special time with her family. “Things are calmer in my home now,” she says “I’m really thankful that Anglican Family Care was there to help. They were able to provide a service that I didn’t even know I needed. I would recommend Anglican Family Care to friends or anyone in need.”
If you’d like to learn more about the programmes and services of Anglican Family Care, please visit our website at www.anglicanfamilycare.co.nz or call 477.0801. All our services are free and voluntary and we welcome self-referrals.